A private journal for two,
that quietly brings you closer.
You each keep your own private journal. A gentle AI reads both and helps each of you become a little more attentive to the other — without ever showing one of you the other's words.
For deepening connections. Free to start, on your own. No card required.
Privacy isn't a feature here. It's the whole foundation.
The journals are private from each other, not from the system that helps you. We were ruthless about the difference.
Your partner can never read your entries
Not a line, not a word. It is enforced at the database level with row-level security — not a setting we could flip, but how the data is built.
No human reads them by default
Not us, not our admins. The AI reads both journals only to gently mediate, server-side. Nobody is leafing through your pages.
Insight is translated, never forwarded
Your partner never sees what you wrote — only a soft, non-leading nudge. The one exception is a highlight you deliberately choose to share.
Delete anything, anytime
Erase an entry, a memory, or your whole account. Delete means delete — the words and their vectors are gone for good.
Break this once and the product is dead — so we built it so we can't. Read the full privacy policy.
Two private journals. One gentle mediator.
Think of it as each of you having both a kind therapist and a thoughtful advocate — one that never takes sides and never leaks a word.
Your private journal
Never shown to them
- Write a few honest lines when you feel like it.
- Soft, mood-aware prompts — gratitude on hard days, reflection on good ones.
- Voice or text. Short by design.
The gentle mediator
Reads both private journals, finds what matters, checks for safety — then translates feeling into kind, doable nudges for each of you.
Themr private journal
Never shown to you
- A soft nudge: “it might be a lovely week to plan something small.”
- Conversation starters for when you’re together.
- Weekly goals you choose — never assigned.
Your partner never sees “you’re upset they forgot.” They see “how has connection felt this week?” — and arrive at the realisation themselves.
Small, kind things — done consistently.
Daily upkeep for a relationship: catch the small stuff before it compounds. Light, not heavy. Forward-looking, not ruminating.
Journaling that meets your mood
Rose / thorn / bud, difficult emotions, gentle expectations — prompts rotate and adapt. We don’t ask what fell short on a day you’re already low.
Proactive, never accusatory
Flowers on the way home, a quiet date night, a conversation starter — small acts of attentiveness, surfaced at the right time.
Weekly goals you choose
The AI offers a handful of tailored suggestions; you accept the few that fit. It offers — you decide. Always.
Care around tender dates
Birthdays, anniversaries, days of grief. The app works quietly to ease tension before the dates that ask for extra gentleness.
Get-to-know-you games
Light, playful quizzes that keep you learning each other — flirtier when you’re dating, calmer when you’re long settled.
Memory you can manage
See what the AI has remembered about you, and forget anything you’d rather it didn’t. Your history is tucked away, not in your face.
For the two people you want to stay close to.
Married, engaged, dating, or simply a friendship you want to keep tending — the tone scales to fit. A new pairing gets lighter and flirtier; a long-settled one gets calmer and deeper.
You can start alone and build the habit before inviting anyone. Linking takes both of you saying yes — never one-sided.
“Each other’s therapist and each other’s lawyer” — neutral, never taking sides, catching the little things before they start to sting.
It knows when to stop being clever and start being kind.
On serious matters — abuse, self-harm, addiction, betrayal — the app stops mediating between the two of you and gently steers the individual toward real, human help. It never nudges the other partner, and never abandons you.
Kindredly is a companion for everyday connection — not therapy, not a crisis service, and not a diagnosis. When something needs a professional, it says so.
We never weaponise the channel
Nothing you write can be turned into pressure or a “gotcha” against you. If a journal is used to manipulate, we steer that person inward instead of relaying it.
We tread lightly
When a situation is delicate, the app does less, not more — gentleness over cleverness, every time.
Crisis resources, on hand
If you’re struggling, you’ll see calm, local help (and you can keep journaling). In immediate danger, call your local emergency number.
18+ and consent-first
Linking is mutual. Sharing a specific line with your partner is always your explicit choice.
Solo
Free
Start journaling on your own, free forever.
- Private journaling
- Daily adaptive prompts
- Voice or text
- Your data, deletable anytime
Together
$9.99/moFor both of you
Everything you need to grow closer — for both of you.
- Link with your partner
- Gentle AI mediation & nudges
- Weekly goals tailored to you
- Get-to-know-you games
Journaling lives on your phone.
Create your account here, then write in the Kindredly app on iOS. Manage your plan, partner link and data from the web anytime.
Start tending the connection that matters most.
Begin on your own, free. Invite your person when you're ready. Your words stay yours — that's the promise.
For deepening connections.